i really wish i could post pictures. you will all have to sit tight till i get home!
today was a GREAT day at the orphanage. no touring, just interacting. we hula-ed with the older non-sn kids and talked with them and learned kung fu from the one boy (he's 13). then we ate lunch. after lunch, we got to play with the non-sn kids who are between 3 and 4ish. i really hope these children get on lists, they are so wonderful! they go to daycare at the orphanage and go home with their foster parents at night. the one really sad thing is that everyone is mama. that is the one thing that stands out: no matter they be the severely mentally disabled or totally healthy, all these kids have attachment disorder. the foster parents are called grandma and grandpa, and i think it's human to have to call SOMEONE mama. and that someone turns into the teacher. i didnt notice it w/the older kids, but they have more understanding of their situation.
candice & michelle v- the children LOVED the photobooks!! candice- z.w.t. was so happy to get your card. she has email, so i will send you her address. she is going to hong kong this summer for a visit... she apparently has contacts outside the orphanage. i will email you privately about her when i get home. michelle- i got to spend quite a bit of time w/g.c.c. do you know how old she is? also, w.y.y. is doing very well. lots of personality. she really enjoyed the pix.
the situation at this orphanage is very interesting. they have sibling groups. 3 little boys just arrived friday, and they are of a minority, so they dont speak chinese.
after we left the orphanage, we visited a foster care facility. this place is excellent beyond all description. there are 12 homes. each has a single 'mom'. she takes care of 8-10 kids between 2-14 (boys move to a boys-only-man-run dormitory at 14; girls stay w/mom). there are 2 uygher homes (minority group) w/uygher moms and all uygher kids. they get $ to buy what they need so mom only focuses on the kids. none of these kids are up for adoption; they get lots of love and a good education and encouragement to go somewhere: college, job, etc. also, the kids come from all over china, so i'm guessing this place is pretty well known throughout orphanage land.
well, i had better go so i don't have to pay too awful much :). i am really enjoying myself. my group is stellar. one thing that will be hard when i go home is being with people who are NOT asian (my whole group is. infact, at 5'5", i am the tallest group member) and trying to discern chinese :).
from urumqi-
(ps. father- i had steak, french fries, fruit, good bread and ice cream for dinner at the hotel dinner buffet last night. you would like this place. actually, you'd fit in too... many of the minority people here kinda look like us. have fun moving freezers... dont paralyze yourself too badly, SOMEONE has to come and pick me up at the airport!!)